The power of choice
The most powerful and liberating thing that we as people fortunate enough to live in a democratic country have is the ability to choose. The higher up the economic scale one is, the greater the choice. Most white collar workers live in the upper echelons of the socio-economic strata, and thus we are the group with the greatest number of choices. This is indeed a privileged place to be.
Consider for a moment the blue collar workers around us: the security guards; the gardeners; the ladies who wash our cups and clean our bathrooms. The majority live three or four times the distance from work than the rest of us. They have no cars, they rely on buses and taxis. They rise hours before we do in order to have the office ready for us on arrival. Their educational and economic circumstances dictate that their choices are more limited than those of us with houses nearby and private cars to get us here. They must not only work, but feed and clothe many more in their family, somehow managing from payday to payday where any deviation from the anticipated norm can spell disaster. These good people represent the majority of South Africans, and most consider themselves fortunate to have a job. Many support other family members who just can’t get work.
White collar workers are a minority group, way smaller than the giant pool of unemployed. The majority of our employees fall into this fortunate minority. Yet we are also the most critical and vocal and demanding. This is a natural order – the empowered have more platforms, louder voices, more opportunities and shoulder much less risk when expressing a viewpoint. We are, in short, the fortunate ones.
We are most fortunate in that we have the greatest variety of choices. From what car we choose to drive to where we choose to live to which company we choose to work for and even who we choose as a life partner (not everyone enjoys even that primary choice). But with choice comes power, and with power responsibility.
Robin Banks is a motivational speaker who comes from a small Coloured community on the outskirts of Soweto. He talks about the two types of ABC people. The first type is the Attitude Beliefs Choice group while the second is the Accusation Blame Complaint type. I think it’s a rather neat summation, albeit oversimplified. Nobody sits entirely in one group or the other, we each have a mix of the two. The personal challenge is thus where we place our emphasis. Because that is a choice we do have – we can and do choose type one or type two multiple times every day of our lives.
I subscribe to the position that our belief systems define our reality. The world is bursting with countless examples that prove this. We choose our belief systems, and we can choose to change or adapt them. There’s a well-known author, activist and politician by the name of Ayaan Hirsi Ali. She was born in Mogadishu, Somalia in 1969 into a tangled labyrinth of clan and ethnic conflict. As a traditional Muslim Somali, she was circumcised and sewn up at the age of 11 without surgical equipment or anaesthesia under customary law before the war forced her family’s relocation to Saudi Arabia and later Kenya. She eventually turned her back on Islam and her family and clan, escaping to the Netherlands and gaining asylum. She faced endless persecution for her radical opposition to the oppression of women and free thought in hard-line Islamic movements, including numerous death threats. Ayaan chose to change her belief system, against unimaginable & unthinkable odds, and redefined her reality.
We as TBWA\Durban are not attempting anything as daunting as redefining our reality, but we are trying to consolidate it. The Tribe is a manifestation of this. The Tribe is of all of our making; it was birthed in your request for a return to a tighter community. So, each of us has a choice. We can choose to be an active member of the Attitude Beliefs Choice group or of the Accusation Blame Complaint one. It’s up to you.








